Hi everyone, I am looking for an encrypted messaging service to start using and recommending to my friends and family, I really want to get this right the first time. At the moment I’m looking at using matrix I really like it’s bridges and federated nature, Although I’m not 100% sure about it’s ux.

What I want to ask is what messaging service do you use and do you have any regrets with it? What encrypted messaging service would you recommended?

Edit: I just had another question are any of the bridges in matrix end to end encrypted? If person A used matrix and person B used signal could person A use a bridge to talk to person B securely?

Edit 2: thanks for all the responses guys it looks like signal seams like the best option since it has really good security like many other messaging apps but it’s also easy to use.

  • MyPornViewingAccount@lemmy.world
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    1 month ago

    I’ve used Signal since it first came out as TextSecure like 10+ years ago.

    It doesnt have fancy bells or whistles, but its work well for me and good enough that ive gotten elderly family members to use it too

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      1 month ago

      Listn, I don’t mind occasionally moving your scrolls back and forth, but if you would attach them to my back instead of my legs it would make it a lot easier OK.

  • CuffsOffWilly@lemmy.ml
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    I just moved to Signal and have convinced most of my family and many friends to join. It is very secure, non-profit and doesn’t share much personal data (the least of the main messaging services) and most of my luddite family has been able to figure it out.

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    1 month ago

    Matrix, xmpp, simplex. Do not use Signal or any service with centralized servers hosted in a 5 eyes country.

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      Seconding simplex. Having a built in way to obfuscate IP is very nice. But its more for privacy extremism and small group chats for people in vulnerable situations, matrix is best for most situations e.g. community and interest groups. I also had some ease with setting up simplex with my grandma, funny enough. Not needing to make an account made it much easier for her.

      Hope Lemmy gets a simplexchat field one day!

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    Recommending to friends and family means Signal. With a phone number they can start using the gold standard for encryption from the get go.

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    Signal and Telegram both require user ID to use their apps. SimpleX-chat does not, zero registration. So if privacy is your number one whish from your messenger than SimpleX is what you’re looking for.

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    Signal for security standard and ease of use, which is essential, if You want to use it with non techy people.

    Simplex for anonymity, You can download it, share chat and start talking without registration.

    • calm.like.a.bomb@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      Simplex for anonymity, You can download it, share chat and start talking without registration.

      It ate my battery when I installed it. Do you use it on a daily basis? What’s your experience with its battery consumption?

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        Have it on always on, with small scale friends and family use. Don’t find it too draining, updates have improved the battery usage

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        I’m in one room with 1,500 people and it uses about 7% of my battery. Mind you, that is a lot for a messenger. But I can deal with that.

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    I got my family onto signal. The app is basic, but that is kinda a benefit when getting half-blind 90yo’s onto it.

    I switched from hangouts when they killed group calls by trying to be zoom.

    No regrets, but group calls sometimes dont ring, which is annoying. Mostly good though.

  • Rav Sha'ul@discuss.tchncs.de
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    1 month ago

    I will second the others that only suggest Signal or a variant of Signal like Langis or Molly. Everybody has each other’s phone numbers, go with Signal so people don’t need any other contact information.