I’ll ignore as much parts of your comments as I want when you don’t answer to mine but derail the discussion.
However let’s explain. Porn, in its mainstream form, doesn’t show a sane form of sexuality, where the desires and needs of all participants are met, but shows women as objects of male pleasure. If, from an individual point of view that doesn’t present any problem (I won’t kink-shame women, nor men, nor gender fluid people, who like being sexually reified), as a form of media it normalizes a vision of womanhood as essentially inferior to manhood, as women being necessarily at the service of men, and thus is a product and reinforcement of rape culture.
You don’t think being reified is demeaning?
However:
And an accusation. Let’s stop, you don’t discuss in good faith.