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Cake day: September 25th, 2024

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  • Proton has a business model where they want the user to put their eggs all in one basket. If you want that kind of userbase you need to leave your personal politics out of it. The problem isn’t that the CEO is right wing. It’s that he is very publicly right wing. Supports a known huckster. And lastly could be vying for a role in the administration. All of this calls into question just for how long Proton will be secure before they are selling user info to the state.

    Politics are very fucking important in terms of security when you’re a whistleblower or dissident.





  • You’re using something in front of caddy right?

    Atleast refuse basic headers and close connections

    add_header X-Robots-Tag "noindex, nofollow, nosnippet, noarchive";
    
    server {
        listen      80 default_server;
        listen      [::]:80 default_server;
        listen      443 default_server;
        listen      [::]:443 default_server;
        ssl_certificate certs/server.cert;
        ssl_certificate_key certs/server.key;
        server_name _;
        return      444; #CONNECTION CLOSED WITHOUT RESPONSE
    }
    







  • If they can’t do that, they can go take a five and come back after. It’s the same thing we teach children.

    Is the definition of paternal.

    You’re asking for a rational response from an irrational act. People don’t say “Oh I seem to have stubbed my toe and it pains me” they say FUCK THAT HURT.

    You sound like you’re trying to manage someone’s emotions with your language and posturing. Which is the exact opposite of what will deescalate a situation.


  • I think we’re misunderstanding each other. You’re using combative and defensive language and then assuming that I’m allowing someone to berate me. That’s different than what happens. There needs to be open communication about how your partner makes you feel and what language they use. But coming at this from a punitive or paternal angle is just ick.


  • oh say “what’s wrong?” makes the situation worse? Guess i should paid more attention in Mind Reading at Hogwarts…

    I don’t think this is a productive way to think of your partner. I also don’t think you’ve read my comment replies.

    If you’re having trouble communicating with your partner, and you get defensive about it, you’re going to have bigger problems than just “mind reading” as you call it.