It means they’re having bareback sex and the man orgasms while inside her.

It should not be tolerated at the workplace. I’m forced to listen to this rhetoric because my shift isn’t done yet, and I can’t leave without getting fired. I’m forced into a sexual discussion without consent, and it’s so graphically disgusting that I feel nauseous.

  • FenderStratocaster@lemmy.worldEnglish
    23·
    5 days ago

    It means they’re having bareback sex and the man orgasms while inside her.

    Did you just find this out? Welcome to humanity. Every human being around you also farts, shits, and pisses too. That means if they excuse themselves to go to the bathroom that they very well may be creating a devastatingly disgusting mountain of shit covered in blood and bowel mucus that would humble Shrek himself. Does that mean someone excusing themselves to the bathroom is disgusting too?

    You are focusing on .000000001% of what actually “trying for a baby” entails. It’s not just the act of sex. It’s the acceptance of two loving people that they are attempting to change their lives forever and be responsible for a child. It’s letting other people know that a life change is coming and expect an emotional roller coaster. For YOU to focus on the sex aspect is actually kind of weird.

    • stinky@redlemmy.comOPEnglish
      326·
      5 days ago

      Thanks for the response. If a gay coworker described bareback sex to you, would you find it work-appropriate? Please answer.

      • FenderStratocaster@lemmy.worldEnglish
        161·
        5 days ago

        Talk about sex is inappropriate regardless of orientation. A person explaining that they are at a point in their life that they are ready for or attempting to have a child is odd, in my opinion, but not inappropriate. Again, YOU are relating this to sex, not them.

      • RBWells@lemmy.worldEnglish
        10·
        5 days ago

        Did they describe the sex though? Like came up to you and, unsolicited, said “OMG my husband shot such a big load inside me!”, or did they just say they were trying to have a baby?

        When someone says they are going to lunch do you say “eew, you are going to chew that food with all that saliva and then swallow it, and it’s gonna travel through your digestive system and then you are going to poop? Why are you telling me this?”