People who pay for conveniences in order to delegate their labor these days often confuse their class/caste privileges for a sign of maturity. What you’re confusing for a sign of maturity (people cooperating with you because you are competent/ respected) is actually capitalism replacing your social connections with money. You’ll notice that’s also how they trashed the rest of your society, if you take two minutes and think about it.
This kind of shows why people paying others to do time saving tasks are wise. Youve decided to go back to subsidence farming which will consume a significant part of your time while theyve just paid someone w small amount of money to do it.