People who pay for conveniences in order to delegate their labor these days often confuse their class/caste privileges for a sign of maturity. What you’re confusing for a sign of maturity (people cooperating with you because you are competent/ respected) is actually capitalism replacing your social connections with money. You’ll notice that’s also how they trashed the rest of your society, if you take two minutes and think about it.
Yeah the worst bosses I ever had were when I worked in food service, because they were the only person making a decent living (maybe $80k at the time) while holding complete power over an army of minimum wage employees who didn’t really have choices.